Inherited weight comes from enmeshment where boundaries between you and others dissolved. When your mother's sadness was yours to fix, when your father's anger was yours to manage, when family dysfunction was yours to solve—you developed the belief that you are responsible for things outside your control. Now you feel guilty for things you did not do, anxious about problems you cannot solve, exhausted from carrying loads that belong to others.
Living with others weight means never having energy for yourself, feeling guilty for wanting your own life, being trapped in others dysfunction.
Setting down the weight means recognizing what is yours and what is not, allowing others to carry their own burdens, trusting that they can manage without you.
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Content informed by trauma research, polyvagal theory (Stephen Porges), somatic experiencing (Peter Levine), and nervous system regulation studies. For comprehensive citations and further reading, see Unfiltered Wisdom: The Book.
About the Author
Robert Greene is the author and founder of Unfiltered Wisdom, a US Navy veteran, and a trauma survivor with over 10 years of experience in nervous system regulation and somatic healing. He is certified in Yoga for Meditation from the Yogic School of Mystic Arts (Dharamsala, India, 2016) and affiliated with Holistic Veterans, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit serving veterans in Santa Cruz, California.