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How Do I Regulate My Nervous System

Understanding the patterns behind this experience

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How Do I Regulate My Nervous System

Short Answer

You can start by take three deep breaths deeply into your belly and exhale slowly through your nose..

What This Means

Your nervous system feels like a punch in the gut, your heart racing as if you're about to be tackled. Your jaw tightens, and you feel like you might throw up, your stomach churning with anxiety.

Why This Happens

This specific pattern exists because your nervous system is wired for survival. When faced with perceived threats, it triggers a fight-or-flight response, preparing your body for immediate action. It served a crucial survival purpose by ensuring you could react quickly to dangerous situations.

What Can Help

  • Try right now: Take three deep breaths deeply into your belly and exhale slowly through your nose.
  • Stomach massage: Gently rub your abdomen in circular motions, starting from the bottom of your stomach and moving up towards your diaphragm.
  • Physical activity: Go for a short walk or do some light stretching to release tension in your body.
  • Touch therapy: Press your palm against a soft surface like a blanket or pillow, applying gentle pressure.
  • Grounding techniques: Stand still on one foot and focus on the sensation of your foot touching the ground.

When to Seek Support

If you find that this response is overwhelming, causing severe physical distress, impacting your daily life, or if it persists without resolution over time.

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Research References

This content is grounded in scientific research on trauma and nervous system regulation:

  • Van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Viking.
  • Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. W. W. Norton.
  • Felitti, V. J., et al. (1998). "Relationship of childhood abuse and household dysfunction to many of the leading causes of death in adults." American Journal of Preventive Medicine, 14(4), 245-258. (ACE Study)
  • Levine, P. (2010). In an Unspoken Voice: How the Body Releases Trauma and Restores Goodness. North Atlantic Books.

Note: This content is educational and for informational purposes. It is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health care.

Robert Greene

About the Author

Robert Greene is the author and founder of Unfiltered Wisdom, a US Navy veteran, and a trauma survivor with over 10 years of experience in nervous system regulation and somatic healing. He is certified in Yoga for Meditation from the Yogic School of Mystic Arts (Dharamsala, India, 2016) and affiliated with Holistic Veterans, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit serving veterans in Santa Cruz, California.

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