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How Do I Get Out Of Survival Mode

Understanding the patterns behind this experience

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How Do I Get Out Of Survival Mode

Short Answer

You can start by take deep, slow breaths - inhale through your nose, hold for a few seconds, and exhale slowly through your mouth. repeat this five times to help calm your nervous system..

What This Means

Feeling like you're running on fumes, your heart pounding like a freight train, your gut tight and clenched, your jaw locked in a perpetual clench. It's like being stuck in quicksand, no matter how hard you try to move forward.

Why This Happens

Your nervous system has a natural fight-or-flight response that kicks in when it perceives danger, preparing your body for action. For you, this might have been triggered by past traumas or even unresolved stressors, keeping your body on high alert all the time.

What Can Help

  • Try right now: Take deep, slow breaths - inhale through your nose, hold for a few seconds, and exhale slowly through your mouth. Repeat this five times to help calm your nervous system.
  • Close your eyes and tense every muscle in your body for a few seconds, then release. Do this three times to relax your entire body.
  • Focus on a part of your body that feels safe and grounding, like your feet planted firmly on the ground or a comforting object nearby.
  • Engage all five senses: listen to calming music, smell something soothing, taste something delightful, see something beautiful, or touch something gentle. Use these sensations to bring you back to the present moment.
  • Move your body in any way that feels good - it could be a quick stretch, some light yoga poses, or even walking around your room. Physical activity can help release tension and reduce stress.

When to Seek Support

If you find yourself stuck in survival mode for an extended period, it might be time to talk to someone who can provide guidance tailored to your specific needs. Consider speaking with a therapist or counselor experienced in trauma-informed care.

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Research References

This content is grounded in scientific research on trauma and nervous system regulation:

  • Van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Viking.
  • Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. W. W. Norton.
  • Felitti, V. J., et al. (1998). "Relationship of childhood abuse and household dysfunction to many of the leading causes of death in adults." American Journal of Preventive Medicine, 14(4), 245-258. (ACE Study)
  • Levine, P. (2010). In an Unspoken Voice: How the Body Releases Trauma and Restores Goodness. North Atlantic Books.

Note: This content is educational and for informational purposes. It is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health care.

Robert Greene

About the Author

Robert Greene is the author and founder of Unfiltered Wisdom, a US Navy veteran, and a trauma survivor with over 10 years of experience in nervous system regulation and somatic healing. He is certified in Yoga for Meditation from the Yogic School of Mystic Arts (Dharamsala, India, 2016) and affiliated with Holistic Veterans, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit serving veterans in Santa Cruz, California.

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